In an emotionally charged event, family members, professionals, students, and community members gathered with their hearts in their hands to pay tribute to Amanda Alexandra Bach, a young woman whose unfortunate death left an indelible mark on the city. The conference, held under the name “Amanda Forum,” not only sought to commemorate her life but also to raise awareness about youth violence and foster healthier relationships.
Held at Aberdeen Manor, Valparaiso, Indiana, the forum featured educators, victim advocates, local authorities, and professionals who shared strategies for preventing violence in relationships. The event also served as an educational platform addressing topics such as consent, mutual respect, boundaries, helplines, and early detection of signs of abuse.
“This forum is a way to transform pain into purpose,” said Sarah Bach, Amanda’s mother, during her remarks. “Gone but never forgotten.”
After graduating from Portage High School in 2013, Amanda Bach was only 19 years old when her life was taken by her ex-partner, Dustin McCowan, who shot her in the neck. Since then, her parents, William and Sandra Bach, along with family members, have worked tirelessly to turn her loss into a movement for change, promoting stricter laws and prevention programs in schools across the state, and informing and helping young people prevent physical, psychological, and even financial violence in their relationships.
The Amanda Forum is held annually and continues to grow in reach and impact. This year, Portage High School students were able to attend thanks to teachers Mrs. Ortega and Ms. Calderone, who gave us the opportunity to learn more about this case. The organizers stated that their mission is clear: “To create a culture where every young person knows they have the right to a life free from violence and full of possibilities.”
